VIBRATOR TIPS - USING YOUR VIBRATOR FOR THE FIRST TIME

Vibrators are now one of the most popular sex toys. Many vibrators are especially good for stimulating the clitoris as that is often the best way for most women to reach orgasm. Many women love their partner to use one on them during lovemaking. Often, they too, can feel the vibrations which can be a terrific turn on. Vibrators are not just for women, Some men actually enjoy using a vibrator on themselves.

When, and where should you use your Vibrator?

Both Vibrators and achieving orgasm can produce a certain amount of noise and most women find they can enjoy the experience much more if they can 'let themselves go' so find a time and place that is comfortable, quiet and private is essential.

When you have used your vibrator a few times you will get to know how to please yourself. You may be in need of a quick release or you may be in the mood for spoiling yourself. Ensure the time set aside reflects your needs.

The first few times may take longer to achieve orgasm until you get to know exactly how to use the vibrator and find what you want and like, so ensure you have set by enough time away from distractions.

If you choose the bath to use your vibrator ensure you have a waterproof vibe.

If you need something to get you in the mood read a dirty book or watch a naughty movie first.

Always purchase a lubricant for comfortable use of your vibrator. Even if you are only using your toy externally it makes using your vibrator against your clitoris or skin more comfortable.

Using your Vibrator

Well this is it. Relax and don't be afraid to enjoy yourself - sex is natural.

Start by exploring your genitals. Don't miss any of you genital area out. gently place your toy on your clitoris. If your vibrator is multi-speed start off slowly and build up from there. See if it feels better at the top or the side of the clitoris.  Placing the vibrator at the side of your clitoris rather than on the tip, or using less pressure can make the experience more pleasurable and longer lasting. If the feeling is too intense try using your vibrator over your panties.

Explore your vagina. If you have a toy for penetration ease it slowly it into your vagina and move it around gently. Try deep penetration as well as just holding it gently against the opening of your vagina. Some vibrators are ideal for hitting your G spot. You will find some things are nicer than others. We are all different.

Experiment. Try different positions. Lay flat on your back or lay on the vibe.

Try squeezing and then relaxing the muscle you tense up when trying not to urinate. Do this in time with your hip movement. Make the noises you want to make. Listen to yourself making them and forget the outside world. Concentrate on your breathing and hip movement. If you don't want to climax straight away move the vibrator to other parts of your body like your breasts, nipples and inside of your thighs.

If you are using an external vibrator try using your fingers inside you vagina. Touch your nipples or the vaginal lips. If it is a penetrative vibe stimulate the clitoris with your fingers.

As you get more experienced and adventurous you could even try using two toys at the same time.  The rest is up to you and your imagination. Enjoy.......

Cleaning your vibrator

Always clean your sex toys with warm water and soap. Specially formulated cleaner can also be bought.

Don't get the batteries or electrical parts wet.

Read the history of the vibrator - you'll be amazed.