A Bit Bored In Bed? Fancy a Change?

There are many different sexual positions that can be used if you want to add a bit of spice to your love life.

The missionary sexual position where the man is on top of the woman is the only position some couples use for performing sex. This can be for various reasons but below are just four more positions you might want to try.

Don't be shy to admit you have not tried them before or indeed, are not sure what they really are.

Below are a few suggestions for sexual positions either for heterosexual couples or two women.

Sex Positions

THE 69 Sex Position

The sixty nine allows both partners to perform oral sex on each other at the same time. You can lie on top of each other or side by side with your heads at opposite ends to each other.

Try the vertical 69 where one partner lies across the bed on their back with their head over the edge, and the other can stand astride your face. A strong partner could then bend over and pick their partner up with your legs around the neck. A strong hold is important as during orgasm it would be easy to slip. Having an orgasm with your head upside down can be a very strange sensation. Strength and fitness are a must with sexual position.

Some people find the 69 a great position because you can pleasure each other at the same time, although some find it hard to concentrate if they are brought to orgasm before their partner.

The 69 is a favourite for lesbian couples as they can arrange themselves in any of the above positions to enable long lasting oral sex or manual manipulation.

REAR ENTRY Sex Position

Rear entry or 'doggie style' is where a man, or a lesbian partner wearing a strap penetrates the woman's vagina from behind. It gives deep penetration and the spot can be stimulated with the thrusting.

Some women enjoy the submissive feeling of kneeling on all fours while their partner does the job from behind.

The clitoris can be stimulated by either of you, either by your fingers or with a vibrator. If you feel a bit embarrassed about using a vibrator in front of your partner then the rear entry position is a great position as they cannot stare at you.

The g spot can be better stimulated by the penis or dildo.

Some people find this an exciting position as it can feel quite naughty, others feel there is a lack of intimacy as you cannot see each others facial expressions and you may not feel that sense of closeness. This position can feel more like raw sex than making love but sometimes that can feel exciting.

It can be a good position when pregnant as it can be more comfortable, However some women however find the thrusting against her uterus uncomfortable. You need less penetration if this is the case.

The rear entry position can be done where you stand and the woman bends right over or it can be done lying side by side. You can try the wheelbarrow where you rest your arms on something like a chair and your partner lifts and supports your legs.

Another angle for this position is to kneel on the edge of the bed and put your face and upper body on the mattress which creates an angle in your back. This angles makes the vagina longer which will squeeze the mans penis. Your nipples will get rubbed on the mattress too which can be very exciting for some women.

 WOMAN ON TOP Sex Position

Here the woman is on top and her partner is flat on their back. The woman straddles her partners penis or dildo and places her knees on either side of her partners hips.

Your partner may love this as they can relax and watch you. They can see and stroke your breasts and nipples, they can massage your clitoris and watch your facial expressions so don't forget to enjoy yourself.

In this position you have control about depth of penetration. You can control the focus of the stimulation. You can lean forward for extra clitoral stimulation or backwards for more vaginal stimulation.

You can have a sense of dominance by holding down your partners arms even handcuffing them to the bed. Some people love this.

This position also allows for eye contact which many people find so necessary and erotic.

Side by Side or 'Spoons' Sex Position

This sexual position can make you feel very close. One partners faces the other who has their back to them. This allows for hugging during penetration by the penis or dildo. It also allows for manual stimulation of the clitoris at the same time.

You can enhance clitoral stimulation by placing your upper leg over your partners and the underneath leg between theirs. If you position yourself as such that you are still on your side but almost on your back then grip your partners leg whilst moving this creates a brilliant orgasm.

It's a great sexual position first thing in the morning as 'morning breath' isn't a problem.